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Self-Care (2781 words) by Alethia
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: The Pitt (TV)
Rating: Explicit
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Jack Abbot/Michael "Robby" Robinavitch
Characters: Michael "Robby" Robinavitch, Jack Abbot (The Pitt), Parker Ellis
Additional Tags: Post-Season/Series 02, Episode Related, Established Relationship, Complicated Relationships, Porn, parker ellis is ahead of everyone, listening to your body
Summary:

Ellis made an amused noise, drawing Robby's attention. "You know, Dana's enlisted everyone in finding a kinship foster."

"Don't look at me," Robby said instantly, just like he'd said to Dana, an actual jolt of horror pitching his gut at the idea.

Ellis went entirely innocent. "What I'm seeing is you looking mighty comfortable over there. And you got nothing but time."

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but we did sort of succeed at taking it easy?

Today we took a bus to a local weekly market on the grounds of Sausmarez Manor, a stately home that has been in the same family since, like, the twelfth century. Well, the estate has; of course there have been several houses on the site, and the family is not currently living in the height of twelfth-century architecture. (Although the then-seigneur's refusal to have the house wired for electricity saved it from being commandeered by the occupying Nazis, who wanted mod cons.) I had high hopes for the market, since I love farmers markets, but it turned out not to be one. There was one person selling food (sausage rolls and similar), a number of people selling handmade crafts, and several people selling mass-produced tat. I was disappointed. But it was still interesting to poke about the property! There's a sculpture garden with an enormous scorpion that I found quite disturbing (I do not like bugs, especially giant ones) and a cobra that I didn't mind but that Geoff found disturbing, and a quite wonderful lioness depicted lolling atop a stone wall, among others. And a small antiques sale was going on, and a sale of Oriental rugs: nothing that held our interest for long, but all together enough to keep us interested for an hour or so. I enjoyed paging through a pamphlet of "107 Things to See in Guernsey" from 1902, and Geoff bought a collection of some British comic strip he had fond memories of.

Then we walked ten minutes up the road to see La Gran'Mère de Chimquiere (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Gran%2527_M%C3%A8re_de_Chimquiere), a stone female figure that was originally carved about four thousand years ago, recarved about two thousand years ago, broken in half by a cranky Christian authority about two hundred years ago and promptly put back together at the insistence of the local population, and that now stands at the entrance to the driveway of a local parish church. History is just lying around everywhere! In itself it's not that much to look at, but contemplating it and the thousands of years of changing worship and veneration was quite moving.

Then we walked forty minutes back to the hotel, along quiet pretty residential back roads much more pleasant than the main drag. At one point a woman in a car pulled up next to us to ask where we were from and generally chat, and in the course of conversation told us that Paul Revere, of American Revolutionary War fame, had roots in Guernsey. (Wikipedia has no mention of this, fwiw.) I said something like "wow, I never knew that" and she said something like "well, it's family history," and I had the feeling that she meant less that she herself was related to him than that all Guernseyites are somehow related? But idk.

I have, by the way, been 100% describing myself as Canadian to everyone we meet. I admit to US roots only in particular circumstances and after some preliminary conversation, and when I do the conversation almost invariably turns to spend some time on "Isn't he awful."

Once back at the hotel, Geoff zonked out for two hours while I faffed about on the internet, and then we walked half an hour north along quiet pretty residential and agricultural back roads to a cidery where we had booked a tour (https://www.rocquettecider.com/). According to the tour guide, although not quite in these words, a super-rich family bought the whole valley in the 1990s, and a friend of theirs who had experience running a cidery in England told them, you know, the microclimate of this valley is excellent for growing cider apples, and it turned out that there had actually been a cidery there until it folded just after WW2, so they bought a few thousand apple trees and went into business. You can do that kind of thing on a whim when you're that rich, I guess; and it does seem to be a good business. It was an interesting tour, not deep but fun, and ended with free half-pints of their cider (which, unfortunately, was the local one I hadn't much liked a few days before; I still didn't like it and Geoff finished mine), plus gin and vodka liqueurs (?? no idea exactly what they were but the vodka one was deep red [?!] and very tasty) and their apple brandy, which was powerfully delicious). Also cheese and crackers and tasty house-made chutney so we didn't all die, drinking that much alcohol on empty stomachs on a very hot and sunny day.

We walked -- or staggered -- back to the hotel just in time for another tapas dinner, which they do here every Saturday. This one was perhaps even more delicious than last week's, and we were seated with an English couple from Reading, whom we very much enjoyed talking with; everybody else had finished and left by the time we said goodnight.


For us this counted as a quiet restful day: only about 100 minutes of walking, and all of it more or less level and on pavement! No idea what we'll do tomorrow, but I am babying a blister, so probably another quiet day?

Currently at the bakery...

May. 23rd, 2026 12:59 pm
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Thanks to everyone who expressed support on my previous post đź’– Apparently replying individually is a major mental roadblock for me right now, so I'm skipping that for the moment for the sake of actually updating for goodness' sake.

I'm still feeling emotionally better at work, and am trying to nail down what sort of accommodations I need. I worked on Sunday and Wednesday, and on Sunday I did my best to take mental note of when I started getting tired versus when I started to physically ache and so forth. On Wednesday I compared notes; I opened the day thinking to myself, "Surely my initial assessment was incorrect? I can't have been starting to flag at only four hours in and counting down the hours until I left while thinking longingly of more painkillers at six hours..." And then I hit five hours of work, and yep, that assessment held up.

That said, my mattress is also not holding up very well, which can't be helping my back recover during sleep. I don't want to rush out and get a new mattress, though, because what if that's not actually a significant part of the problem? I did work enough hours over the lead up to Mother's Day that I can afford one, but my current mattress is supposedly supposed to be viable for another four years, and it wasn't cheap. Ideally, I'd like to try out a different mattress for a night or two, but all of the spare bedrooms in my house are... kinda being used for storage 🤦‍♀️ One is covered in Legos and books, one in toys that my niblings play with when they visit, and one is covered in probably mostly books but honestly has been buried for over two decades at this point. IDK, I'll have to give it some more thought.

Hornytown Chutzpah, by Andrew Hiller

May. 23rd, 2026 01:00 pm
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Review copy provided by the author, who's a convention/online buddy.

Sometime in your life, you've probably met a smartass who always has a joke for every occasion--and then gradually realized that this person was genuinely kind. That they were not punching down, and mostly they weren't punching at all, instead focusing their jokes on wry incongruity or situation rather than mocking individual people. That there was a core of tenderness behind the wisecracking. If you know the kind of person I mean (let's be real: several of you are the kind of person I mean), you will understand Sol, the narrator of Hornytown Chutzpah pretty much right away. He's not just called Solomon the Wise Guy for a wry historical reference. He's definitely a wiseacre--but not as dumb as he might joke that he is. He's coping using a very specific kind humor--in this case, the instantiation of it that shows up in a lot of American Jewish culture.

And boy, does Sol have a lot to cope with. I knew I was hooked all the way when the guy who is enough of a smartass to earn the nickname Solomon the Wise Guy can be brought to action with a reference to tikun olam. Look, friends, I'm not Jewish, but I know that one. A call to repair the world? those are lyrics everyone can enjoy. And having it be a touchstone, a point that rings our hero like a bell? I'm in, I'm all in.

The Hornytown of the title is an incursion of Hell into the Washington, DC, area, complete with hellfire around it and sin-eating demons within (and sometimes without). It's run by a figure that will look unfortunately familiar, but rest assured that our hero is all-in against him. I was frankly worried by the title, because my interest in "city of people who would like to have a lot of sex" is pretty minimal, but it's not that kind of Hornytown at all. Whew. Is there chutzpah, though? There is chutzpah to spare. Which is a good thing, because the literally hellish nature of the problems Sol faces will require it.

Table talk

May. 23rd, 2026 01:21 pm
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 Sofia Samatar was in town for some archival research, and having done a little early, asked me out to dinner, to celebrate my Lanternfish contract. She said she wants my books in print so she can teach them! (Be still my beating heart.)

 

She and her husband, the author/illustrator Keith Miller, took me to the courtyard at Oleana, which is spectacular.

 

The conversation sang.

Nine

 

 

Birdfeeding

May. 23rd, 2026 12:01 pm
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Today is partly cloudy and mild.

I fed the birds.  I've seen a few sparrows and house finches.

I put out water for the birds.




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Poetry Fishbowl Update

May. 23rd, 2026 11:21 am
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If you're still shopping the half-price sale in Polychrome Heroics, now is the time to make your selections.

[personal profile] fuzzyred has sponsored "A Proper Community Is a Commonwealth," "Your Emotional Abilities," and "Aim a Little Above It" plus put $55 towards "Let's Go on This Journey Together" so that now needs $251 to be complete.

Rather miscellaneous

May. 23rd, 2026 04:24 pm
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Not so much re-inventing the wheel, as having to point out something that is already known and has been for a long time (it was not really news when my primary-school teacher was making the point): Children’s reading should prioritise pleasure over learning, says laureate. Sigh.

***

Also on perhaps a similar theme that the obvious straight road is not actually the way there: science is not simply a sequence of tasks that can be optimized:

It advances through a process analogous to Darwinian evolution: variation across many independent efforts; selection through critique, replication, and competition; and retention of robust results. This distributed structure is what allows science to correct itself and to generate novelty. Independence is not incidental; it is the mechanism that produces both reliability and discovery.
....
The scientific system thrives on inefficiency: redundant efforts, failed attempts, and divergent paths. These are not costs to be eliminated but sources of discovery. By contrast, optimization pressures drive convergence—faster iteration within a constrained search space. The result may be more output but less exploration of the unexpected.

***

I stumbled across a remarkable collection of photographs:

There are several images in the collection of relevance to queer history, not least in those that record varieties of touch between men that would later become discouraged. In one, we see four young men sitting together on a bench in a garden: two of them hold hands. In another, a man takes another man on his lap, posing as lovers in a pose that mimics the popular visual culture of the day.
But the collection is arguably of most interest to LGBTQ+ history, specifically trans history, for the kinds of gender play it records. Several images in the collection illustrate traditions of gender crossing in British culture. Some show pantomime dames and another perhaps shows the role of a boy character taken up by a woman.

?Normal for Norfolk???

***

An extraordinary story of people who appear to be the 'good guys' (Liberal representing the anti-slavery interest in Lyme Regis) absolutely knee-deep in electoral corruption. Bonus appearance of Mary Anning!

What is most striking about Pinney’s career as an MP is not just the willingness of a fairly advanced Liberal to engage in wholesale electoral corruption, but his own attitude to slavery given his family background. As early as 1832 he had called on the hustings for its complete abolition and in 1838 he willingly voted for the Whig government’s apprenticeship reforms.

***

This is fascinating: The Plotland Houses of Britain: How a 20th century working-class housing movement was stifled, but I'd like to see some consideration of how the post-WWII prefab housing developments and attitudes thereto would fit onto what's described here.

(Also resonates with account in Houlbrook's Songs of Seven Dials about what well-intentioned progressive town-planners wanted to do to those traditional parts of inner London, but in the event, didn't.)

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Masterlist.

Ha, I have now started Episode 6 and once again all my theories are in disarray. Episode 5 was amazing though, a really clever deconstruction of the existing structure and the very concept of a murder mystery.

CW: Suicide. Domestic violence, kinda?

Read more... )

little libraries

May. 23rd, 2026 09:00 am
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I came across this great story elsewhere on the interwebs, an 89-year-old guy in Puchong (near Kuala Lumpur), Malaysia, who's set up reading stations in a public park. He also has helped libraries in Thailand and China. (Article here.)

There's also a short video linked in the article, which is great, because you can hear Mr Lee in his own words:

"I think Malaysia should follow China, where every village has one library. That's good."**



I was thinking of Little Free Libraries in this country. I think they're a great idea in places where there's foot traffic, where many different people might stop by and look over the books. I sometimes see them, though, in places where I wonder what traffic they'll get. On winding country roads with rather large houses situated far back from the roads on ample, gracious properties. And at the roadside, a little free library. But who's going to be walking by? I guess maybe the neighbors? But there's just not the same thickness of people.

Also, this guy thinks of himself as lending the books, not giving them away. He doesn't mind if you keep the book a month, six months, a year, and in fact he probably isn't going to be upset if a book doesn't come back, but the *idea* is that it will come back--and that means that the borrower has more connection with the site, and there's a sense of mutual responsibility. Plus the story says that people like to come and chat with him.

There can be more than one pattern! Little Free Libraries have a kind of spy-drop-box vibe. Ships passing in the night, taking books, maybe leaving books. That can be fun too. But I like the actual social interaction involved in what Mr Lee is doing.

Do any of you oversee a Little Free Library or frequent one (or more than one)? What's your experience been?


**Not exactly his words, which are Malaysian-English word order and has some special words I didn't catch, but that's how they're glossed and mainly what he said.
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Saturday -- sunny and cool.

I have finally found the Sekrit to making an enjoyable (as opposed to merely an OK) cup of Harney's Chocolate Chai Supreme, which is! (1) Realize that there is more than one cup, but less than two cups of leaves left, and just brew it all, leaving the cup 1/3(ish) empty. (2) After tea is brewed, fill the rest of the cup with milk, and dump in the last spoonful of Ghirardelli's Cocoa Powder. The result is something like spicy hot chocolate, and really quite tasty. That said, I will not be re-upping my supply of chocolate chai.

Today, as previously reported, I'll be finishing my packing, making sure the laptop is functional, and flipping a coin to see if I'll be taking one of my crazy keyboards. Speaking of over-packing. I'm really bad on a flat keyboard anymore, but! I don't intend this to be a Writing Retreat. On the Gripping Hand, if I'm suddenly Struck by Inspiration (which is almost guaranteed to happen exactly when one is intending Not To Write), I want to be able to type, not flail. I think I have Steve's Special Flipping Coin around here somewhere...

Also today, I need to swap out the cat fountains (not the cat boxes; I did that earlier in the week), and decide how to adjust station air for the cats. It's going to be in the mid-50s a couple days, but what worries me more is the warmer days in the middle of the week. I believe I'll be setting station air at 72 COOL, which should keep things comfortable for them. They really don't get the Go Downstairs strategy when the upper house gets too warm, and they have plenty of blankets, not to mention each other, to snuggle with if it's cool.

I think it fair to say that from this point on, Radio Rolanni in all of its iterations will be transmitting intermittently, and possibly not at all. The conference areas will be open, and the kitchens stocked with snacks. Feel free to meet and talk among yourselves, or bring games and crafts.  We'll be back on the air next weekend.

I append a picture of The Long Back Yard, with lilacs and those low-growing purple weeds that the bees like so much. I'm pleased to see such a lush patch of those.


Happy Birthday, Buddha (more or less)

May. 23rd, 2026 07:29 am
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The date seems to vary, but in some places today is the celebration of the birthday of Siddhartha Gautama, founder of Buddhism. 1
Possibly due to the date, a link to this little film from the National Museum of Korea showed up in my twitter feed
https://m.blog.naver.com/100museum/224294505078

Despite a lifetime of seeing statues and images of the Buddha, unfortunately one of the defaults of young Siddhartha in my head is Keanu Reeves. 2

There is a 1993 movie called "Little Buddha," the premise of which is that a little kid in Seattle (?) was the reincarnation of a Lama. In flashbacks, we have the origin story of Buddhism, featuring Keanu.
This is the first US scene in the movie. In some ways I think it's the best part of the film, because of the cleverness of having Iris Dement's "Let the Mystery Be" play on the car radio as the monks head to the kid's home.



Whole Iris Dement song, including the line "some say you're gonna come back" (live version, unrelated to the movie)



1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddha's_Birthday

2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keanu_Reeves
He has a variety of genetic backgrounds, but nothing from Nepal, although a great grandparent was Chinese which is at least in the neighborhood. Still, I suspect a lot of bronzer was used. Not a good thing.

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May. 23rd, 2026 12:19 pm
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Happy birthday, [personal profile] szandara!

Saturday 23/05/2026

May. 23rd, 2026 11:21 am
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1) Enjoying the gorgeous weather on my sunny balcony

2) The occasional sounds of jazz from a nearby festival are pleasant

3) Lazy day, having done all the necessary shores yesterday

Philosophical Questions: Honor

May. 23rd, 2026 12:05 am
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People have expressed interest in deep topics, so this list focuses on philosophical questions.

What does honor mean to you? How important is it to you? Does your culture value honor? What exemplifies honor in your culture?


"Reputation is what other people know about you. Honor is what you know about yourself.... The friction tends to arise when the two are not the same....There is no more hollow feeling than to stand with your honor shattered at your feet while soaring public reputation wraps you in rewards. That's soul destroying. The other way around is merely very, very irritating."
-- Lois McMaster Bujold, A Civil Campaign

"Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And
outlive the bastards."
― Lois McMaster Bujold, A Civil Campaign

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